11.1 Understanding Sex and Gender
Learning Objectives
- Define sex and gender and femininity and masculinity.
- Critically assess the evidence on biology, culture and socialization, and gender.
- Discuss agents of gender socialization.
Although the terms sex and gender
are sometimes used interchangeably and do in fact complement each
other, they nonetheless refer to different aspects of what it means to
be a woman or man in any society.
SexThe
anatomical and other biological differences between females and males
that are determined at the moment of conception and develop in the womb
and throughout childhood and adolescence. refers to the
anatomical and other biological differences between females and males
that are determined at the moment of conception and develop in the womb
and throughout childhood and adolescence. Females, of course, have two X
chromosomes, while males have one X chromosome and one Y chromosome.
From this basic genetic difference spring other biological differences.
The first to appear are the different genitals that boys and girls
develop in the womb and that the doctor (or midwife) and parents look
for when a baby is born (assuming the baby’s sex is not already known
from ultrasound or other techniques) so that the momentous announcement,
“It’s a boy!” or “It’s a girl!” can be made. The genitalia are called primary sex characteristicsAnatomical and other biological differences between females and males that begin developing in the womb., while the other differences that develop during puberty are called secondary sex characteristicsBiological differences between females and males that emerge during puberty.
and stem from hormonal differences between the two sexes. In this
difficult period of adolescents’ lives, boys generally acquire deeper
voices, more body hair, and more muscles from their flowing
testosterone. Girls develop breasts and wider hips and begin
menstruating as nature prepares them for possible pregnancy and
childbirth. For better or worse, these basic biological differences
between the sexes affect many people’s perceptions of what it means to
be female or male, as we shall soon discuss.
Gender as a Social Construction
If sex is a biological concept, then genderThe social and cultural differences a society assigns to people based on their biological sex.
is a social concept. It refers to the social and cultural differences a
society assigns to people based on their (biological) sex. A related
concept, gender rolesA society’s expectations of people’s behavior and attitudes based on whether they are females or males.,
refers to a society’s expectations of people’s behavior and attitudes
based on whether they are females or males. Understood in this way,
gender, like race as discussed in , is a social construction.
How we think and behave as females and males is not etched in stone by
our biology but rather is a result of how society expects us to think
and behave based on what sex we are. As we grow up, we learn these
expectations as we develop our gender identityIndividuals’ beliefs about themselves as either females or males., or our beliefs about ourselves as females or males.
These expectations are called femininity and masculinity. FemininityCultural expectations of girls and women, including gentleness and attractiveness. refers to the cultural expectations we have of girls and women, while masculinityCultural expectations of boys and men, including toughness and bravery. refers to the expectations we have of boys and men. A familiar nursery rhyme nicely summarizes these two sets of traits:
What are little boys made of?
Snips and snails,
And puppy dog tails,
That’s what little boys are made of.
What are little girls made of?
Sugar and spice,
And everything nice,
That’s what little girls are made of.
As
this nursery rhyme suggests, our traditional notions of femininity and
masculinity indicate that we think females and males are fundamentally
different from each other. In effect, we think of them as two sides of
the same coin of being human. What we traditionally mean by femininity
is captured in the adjectives, both positive and negative, we
traditionally ascribe to women: gentle, sensitive, nurturing, delicate,
graceful, cooperative, decorative, dependent, emotional, passive, and
weak. Thus when we say that a girl or woman is very feminine, we have
some combination of these traits, usually the positive ones, in mind:
she is soft, dainty, pretty, even a bit flighty. What we traditionally
mean by masculinity is captured in the adjectives, again both positive
and negative, our society traditionally ascribes to men: strong,
assertive, brave, active, independent, intelligent, competitive,
insensitive, unemotional, and aggressive. When we say that a boy or man
is very masculine, we have some combination of these traits in mind: he
is tough, strong, and assertive.
These
traits might sound like stereotypes of females and males in today’s
society, and to some extent they are, but differences between men and
women in attitudes and behavior do in fact exist (Aulette, Wittner,
& Blakeley, 2009).
For example, women cry more often than men do. Men are more physically
violent than women. Women take care of children more than men do. Women
smile more often than men. Men curse more often than women. When women
talk with each other, they are more likely to talk about their personal
lives than men are when they talk with each other (Tannen, 2001).
The two sexes even differ when they hold a cigarette (not that anyone
should smoke). When a woman holds a cigarette, she usually has the palm
of her cigarette-holding hand facing upward. When a man holds a
cigarette, he usually has his palm facing downward.
Sexual Orientation
Sexual orientationPreference for sexual relationships with individuals of the opposite sex, the same sex, or both sexes. refers to a person’s preference for sexual relationships with individuals of the other sex (heterosexuality), one’s own sex (homosexuality), or both sexes (bisexuality). The term also increasingly refers to transgendered
individuals, those whose behavior, appearance, and/or gender identity
fails to conform to conventional norms. Transgendered individuals
include transvestites (those who dress in the clothing of the opposite sex) and transsexuals (those whose gender identity differs from the physiological sex and who sometimes undergo a sex change).
It
is difficult to know precisely how many people are gay, lesbian,
bisexual, or transgendered. One problem is conceptual. For example, what
does it mean to be gay or lesbian? Does one need to actually have
sexual relations with a same-sex partner to be considered gay? What if
someone is attracted to same-sex partners but does not actually engage
in sex with such persons? What if someone identifies as heterosexual but
engages in homosexual sex for money (as in certain forms of
prostitution) or for power and influence (as in much prison sex)? These
conceptual problems make it difficult to determine the extent of
homosexuality.
A
second problem is empirical. Even if we can settle on a definition of
homosexuality, how do we then determine how many people fit this
definition? For better or worse, our best evidence of the number of gays
and lesbians in the United States comes from surveys of national
samples of Americans in which they are asked various questions about
their sexuality. Although these are anonymous surveys, obviously at
least some individuals may be reluctant to disclose their sexual
activity and thoughts to an interviewer. Still, scholars think the
estimates from these surveys are fairly accurate but that they probably
underestimate by at least a small amount the number of gays and
lesbians.
A
widely cited survey carried out by researchers at the University of
Chicago found that 2.8% of men and 1.4% of women identified themselves
as gay/lesbian or bisexual, with greater percentages reporting having
had sexual relations with same-sex partners or being attracted to
same-sex persons (see ).
In the 2008 General Social Survey, 2.2% of men and 3.5% of women
identified themselves as gay/lesbian or bisexual. Among individuals
having had any sexual partners since turning 18, 2.2% of men reported
having had at least some male partners, while 4.6% of women reported
having had at least some female partners. Although precise numbers must
remain unknown, it seems fair to say that between about 2% and 5% of
Americans are gay/lesbian or bisexual.
Table 11.1 Prevalence of Homosexuality in the United States
Activity, attraction, or identity |
Men (%) |
Women (%) |
Find same-sex sexual relations appealing |
4.5 |
5.6 |
Attracted to people of same sex |
6.2 |
4.4 |
Identify as gay or bisexual |
2.8 |
1.4 |
At least one sex partner of same sex during past year among those sexually active |
2.7 |
1.3 |
At least one sex partner of same sex since turning 18 |
4.9 |
4.1 |
Source: Data from Laumann, E. O., Gagnon, J. H., Michael, R. T., & Michaels, S. (1994). The social organization of sexuality. Chicago, IL: University of Chicago Press.
If
it is difficult to determine the number of people who are gay/lesbian or
bisexual, it is even more difficult to determine why some people have
this sexual orientation while most do not have it. Scholars disagree on
the “causes” of sexual orientation (Engle, McFalls, Gallagher, &
Curtis, 2006; Sheldon, Pfeffer, Jayaratne, Feldbaum, & Petty, 2007).
Some scholars attribute it to unknown biological factor(s) over which
individuals have no control, just as individuals do not decide whether
they are left-handed or right-handed. Supporting this view, many gays
say they realized they were gay during adolescence, just as straights
would say they realized they were straight during their own adolescence.
Other scholars say that sexual orientation is at least partly
influenced by cultural norms, so that individuals are more likely to
identify as gay or straight depending on the cultural views of sexual
orientation into which they are socialized as they grow up. At best,
perhaps all we can say is that sexual orientation stems from a complex
mix of biological and cultural factors that remain to be determined.
The Development of Gender Differences
What
accounts for differences in female and male behavior and attitudes? Do
the biological differences between the sexes account for other
differences? Or do these latter differences stem, as most sociologists
think, from cultural expectations and from differences in the ways in
which the sexes are socialized? These are critical questions, for they
ask whether the differences between boys and girls and women and men
stem more from biology or from society. As
pointed out, biological explanations for human behavior implicitly
support the status quo. If we think behavioral and other differences
between the sexes are due primarily to their respective biological
makeups, we are saying that these differences are inevitable or nearly
so and that any attempt to change them goes against biology and will
likely fail.
As
an example, consider the obvious biological fact that women bear and
nurse children and men do not. Couple this with the common view that
women are also more gentle and nurturing than men, and we end up with a
“biological recipe” for women to be the primary caretakers of children.
Many people think this means women are therefore much better suited than
men to take care of children once they are born, and that the family
might be harmed if mothers work outside the home or if fathers are the
primary caretakers.
shows that more than one-third of the public agrees that “it is much
better for everyone involved if the man is the achiever outside the home
and the woman takes care of the home and family.” To the extent this
belief exists, women may not want to work outside the home or, if they
choose to do so, they face difficulties from employers, family, and
friends. Conversely, men may not even think about wanting to stay at
home and may themselves face difficulties from employees, family, and
friends if they want to do so. A belief in a strong biological basis for
differences between women and men implies, then, that there is little
we can or should do to change these differences. It implies that
“anatomy is destiny,” and destiny is, of course, by definition
inevitable.
This
implication makes it essential to understand the extent to which gender
differences do, in fact, stem from biological differences between the
sexes or, instead, stem from cultural and social influences. If biology
is paramount, then gender differences are perhaps inevitable and the
status quo will remain. If culture and social influences matter much
more than biology, then gender differences can change and the status quo
may give way. With this backdrop in mind, let’s turn to the biological
evidence for behavioral and other differences between the sexes and then
examine the evidence for their social and cultural roots.
Biology and Gender
Several
biological explanations for gender roles exist, and we discuss two of
the most important ones here. One explanation is from the related fields
of sociobiology (see ) and evolutionary psychology (Workman & Reader, 2009) and argues an evolutionary basis for traditional gender roles.
Scholars advocating this view reason as follows (Barash, 2007; Thornhill & Palmer, 2000).
In prehistoric societies, few social roles existed. A major role
centered on relieving hunger by hunting or gathering food. The other
major role centered on bearing and nursing children. Because only women
could perform this role, they were also the primary caretakers for
children for several years after birth. And because women were
frequently pregnant, their roles as mothers confined them to the home
for most of their adulthood. Meanwhile, men were better suited than
women for hunting because they were stronger and quicker than women. In
prehistoric societies, then, biology was indeed destiny: for biological
reasons, men in effect worked outside the home (hunted), while women
stayed at home with their children.
Evolutionary
reasons also explain why men are more violent than women. In
prehistoric times, men who were more willing to commit violence against
and even kill other men would “win out” in the competition for female
mates. They thus were more likely than less violent men to produce
offspring, who would then carry these males’ genetic violent tendencies.
By the same token, men who were prone to rape women were more likely to
produce offspring, who would then carry these males’ “rape genes.” This
early process guaranteed that rape tendencies would be biologically
transmitted and thus provided a biological basis for the amount of rape
that occurs today.
If
the human race evolved along these lines, sociobiologists and
evolutionary psychologists continue, natural selection favored those
societies where men were stronger, braver, and more aggressive and where
women were more fertile and nurturing. Such traits over the millennia
became fairly instinctual, meaning that men’s and women’s biological
natures evolved differently. Men became, by nature, more assertive,
daring, and violent than women, and women are, by nature, more gentle,
nurturing, and maternal than men. To the extent this is true, these
scholars add, traditional gender roles for women and men make sense from
an evolutionary standpoint, and attempts to change them go against the
sexes’ biological natures. This in turn implies that existing gender
inequality must continue because it is rooted in biology. As the title
of a book presenting the evolutionary psychology argument summarizes
this implication, “biology at work: rethinking sexual equality” (Browne,
2002).
Critics challenge the evolutionary explanation on several grounds (Hurley, 2007; Buller, 2006; Begley, 2009).
First, much greater gender variation in behavior and attitudes existed
in prehistoric times than the evolutionary explanation assumes. Second,
even if biological differences did influence gender roles in prehistoric
times, these differences are largely irrelevant in today’s world, in
which, for example, physical strength is not necessary for survival.
Third, human environments throughout the millennia have simply been too
diverse to permit the simple, straightforward biological development
that the evolutionary explanation assumes. Fourth, evolutionary
arguments implicitly justify existing gender inequality by implying the
need to confine women and men to their traditional roles.
Recent
anthropological evidence also challenges the evolutionary argument that
men’s tendency to commit violence, including rape, was biologically
transmitted. This evidence instead finds that violent men have trouble
finding female mates who would want them and that the female mates they
find and the children they produce are often killed by rivals to the
men. The recent evidence also finds those rapists’ children are often
abandoned and then die. As one anthropologist summarizes the rape
evidence, “The likelihood that rape is an evolved adaptation [is]
extremely low. It just wouldn’t have made sense for men in the
[prehistoric epoch] to use rape as a reproductive strategy, so the
argument that it’s preprogrammed into us doesn’t hold up” (Begley, 2009,
p. 54).
A
second biological explanation for traditional gender roles centers on
hormones and specifically on testosterone, the so-called male hormone.
One of the most important differences between boys and girls and men and
women in the United States and many other societies is their level of
aggression. Simply put, males are much more physically aggressive than
females and in the United States commit about 85%–90% of all violent
crimes (see ). Why is this so? As pointed out, this gender difference is often attributed to males’ higher levels of testosterone (Mazur, 2009).
To
see whether testosterone does indeed raise aggression, researchers
typically assess whether males with higher testosterone levels are more
aggressive than those with lower testosterone levels. Several studies
find that this is indeed the case. For example, a widely cited study of
Vietnam-era male veterans found that those with higher levels of
testosterone had engaged in more violent behavior (Booth & Osgood,
1993).
However, this correlation does not necessarily mean that their
testosterone increased their violence: as has been found in various
animal species, it is also possible that their violence increased their
testosterone. Because studies of human males can’t for ethical and
practical reasons manipulate their testosterone levels, the exact
meaning of the results from these testosterone-aggression studies must
remain unclear, according to a review sponsored by the National Academy
of Sciences (Miczek, Mirsky, Carey, DeBold, & Raine, 1994).
Another
line of research on the biological basis for sex differences in
aggression involves children, including some as young as ages 1 or 2, in
various situations (Card, Stucky, Sawalani, & Little, 2008).
They might be playing with each other, interacting with adults, or
writing down solutions to hypothetical scenarios given to them by a
researcher. In most of these studies, boys are more physically
aggressive in thought or deed than girls, even at a very young age.
Other studies are more experimental in nature. In one type of study, a
toddler will be playing with a toy, only to have it removed by an adult.
Boys typically tend to look angry and try to grab the toy back, while
girls tend to just sit there and whimper. Because these gender
differences in aggression are found at very young ages, researchers
often say they must have some biological basis. However, critics of this
line of research counter that even young children have already been
socialized along gender lines (Begley, 2009; Eliot, 2009),
a point to which we return later. To the extent this is true, gender
differences in children’s aggression may simply reflect socialization
and not biology.
In
sum, biological evidence for gender differences certainly exists, but
its interpretation remains very controversial. It must be weighed
against the evidence, to which we next turn, of cultural variations in
the experience of gender and of socialization differences by gender. One
thing is clear: to the extent we accept biological explanations for
gender, we imply that existing gender differences and gender inequality
must continue to exist. This implication prompts many social scientists
to be quite critical of the biological viewpoint. As Linda L. Lindsey
(2011, p. 52)
notes, “Biological arguments are consistently drawn upon to justify
gender inequality and the continued oppression of women.” In contrast,
cultural and social explanations of gender differences and gender
inequality promise some hope for change. Let’s examine the evidence for
these explanations.
Culture and Gender
Some
of the most compelling evidence against a strong biological
determination of gender roles comes from anthropologists, whose work on
preindustrial societies demonstrates some striking gender variation from
one culture to another. This variation underscores the impact of
culture on how females and males think and behave.
Margaret Mead (1935)
was one of the first anthropologists to study cultural differences in
gender. In New Guinea she found three tribes—the Arapesh, the
Mundugumor, and the Tchambuli—whose gender roles differed dramatically.
In the Arapesh both sexes were gentle and nurturing. Both women and men
spent much time with their children in a loving way and exhibited what
we would normally call maternal behavior. In the Arapesh, then,
different gender roles did not exist, and in fact, both sexes conformed
to what Americans would normally call the female gender role.
The
situation was the reverse among the Mundugumor. Here both men and women
were fierce, competitive, and violent. Both sexes seemed to almost
dislike children and often physically punished them. In the Mundugumor
society, then, different gender roles also did not exist, as both sexes
conformed to what we Americans would normally call the male gender role.
In
the Tchambuli, Mead finally found a tribe where different gender roles
did exist. One sex was the dominant, efficient, assertive one and showed
leadership in tribal affairs, while the other sex liked to dress up in
frilly clothes, wear makeup, and even giggle a lot. Here, then, Mead
found a society with gender roles similar to those found in the United
States, but with a surprising twist. In the Tchambuli, women were the
dominant, assertive sex that showed leadership in tribal affairs, while
men were the ones wearing frilly clothes and makeup.
Mead’s
research caused a firestorm in scholarly circles, as it challenged the
biological view on gender that was still very popular when she went to
New Guinea. In recent years, Mead’s findings have been challenged by
other anthropologists. Among other things, they argue that she probably
painted an overly simplistic picture of gender roles in her three
societies (Scheper-Hughes, 1987).
Other anthropologists defend Mead’s work and note that much subsequent
research has found that gender-linked attitudes and behavior do differ
widely from one culture to another (Morgan, 1989). If so, they say, the impact of culture on what it means to be a female or male cannot be ignored.
Extensive
evidence of this impact comes from anthropologist George Murdock, who
created the Standard Cross-Cultural Sample of almost 200 preindustrial
societies studied by anthropologists. Murdock (1937)
found that some tasks in these societies, such as hunting and trapping,
are almost always done by men, while other tasks, such as cooking and
fetching water, are almost always done by women. These patterns provide
evidence for the evolutionary argument presented earlier, as they
probably stem from the biological differences between the sexes. Even so
there were at least some societies in which women hunted and in which
men cooked and fetched water.
More
importantly, Murdock found much greater gender variation in several of
the other tasks he studied, including planting crops, milking, and
generating fires. Men primarily performed these tasks in some societies,
women primarily performed them in other societies, and in still other
societies both sexes performed them equally.
shows the gender responsibility for yet another task, weaving. Women
are the primary weavers in about 61% of the societies that do weaving,
men are the primary weavers in 32%, and both sexes do the weaving in 7%
of the societies. Murdock’s findings illustrate how gender roles differ
from one culture to another and imply they are not biologically
determined.
Anthropologists
since Mead and Murdock have continued to investigate cultural
differences in gender. Some of their most interesting findings concern
gender and sexuality (Morgan, 1989; Brettell & Sargent, 2009).
Although all societies distinguish “femaleness” and “maleness,”
additional gender categories exist in some societies. The Native
Americans known as the Mohave, for example, recognize four genders: a
woman, a woman who acts like a man, a man, and a man who acts like a
woman. In some societies, a third, intermediary gender category is
recognized. Anthropologists call this category the berdache,
who is usually a man who takes on a woman’s role. This intermediary
category combines aspects of both femininity and masculinity of the
society in which it is found and is thus considered an androgynousContaining aspects of both femaleness and maleness, or of both femininity and masculinity. gender. Although some people in this category are born as intersexed individuals (formerly known as hermaphrodites),
meaning they have genitalia of both sexes, many are born biologically
as one sex or the other but adopt an androgynous identity.
An example of this intermediary gender category may be found in India, where the hirja role involves males who wear women’s clothing and identify as women (Reddy, 2006). The hirja
role is an important part of Hindu mythology, in which androgynous
figures play key roles both as humans and as gods. Today people
identified by themselves and others as hirjas continue to play an important role in Hindu practices and in Indian cultural life in general. Serena Nanda (1997, pp. 200–201) calls hirjas
“human beings who are neither man nor woman” and says they are thought
of as “special, sacred beings” even though they are sometimes ridiculed
and abused.
Anthropologists
have found another androgynous gender composed of women warriors in 33
Native American groups in North America. Walter L. Williams (1997)
calls these women “amazons” and notes that they dress like men and
sometimes even marry women. In some tribes girls exhibit such
“masculine” characteristics from childhood, while in others they may be
recruited into “amazonhood.” In the Kaska Indians, for example, a
married couple with too many daughters would select one to “be like a
man.” When she was about 5 years of age, her parents would begin to
dress her like a boy and have her do male tasks. Eventually she would
grow up to become a hunter.
The
androgynous genders found by anthropologists remind us that gender is a
social construction and not just a biological fact. If culture does
affect gender roles, socialization is the process through which culture
has this effect. What we experience as girls and boys strongly
influences how we develop as women and men in terms of behavior and
attitudes. To illustrate this important dimension of gender, let’s turn
to the evidence on socialization.
Socialization and Gender
identified several agents of socialization, including the family,
peers, schools, the mass media, and religion. While that chapter’s
discussion focused on these agents’ impact on socialization in general,
ample evidence of their impact on gender-role socialization also exists.
Such socialization helps boys and girls develop their gender identity
(Andersen & Hysock, 2009).
The Family
Socialization
into gender roles begins in infancy, as almost from the moment of birth
parents begin to socialize their children as boys or girls without even
knowing it (Begley, 2009; Eliot, 2009). Many studies document this process (Lindsey, 2011).
Parents commonly describe their infant daughters as pretty, soft, and
delicate and their infant sons as strong, active, and alert, even though
neutral observers find no such gender differences among infants when
they do not know the infants’ sex. From infancy on, parents play with
and otherwise interact with their daughters and sons differently. They
play more roughly with their sons—for example, by throwing them up in
the air or by gently wrestling with them—and more quietly with their
daughters. When their infant or toddler daughters cry, they warmly
comfort them, but they tend to let their sons cry longer and to comfort
them less. They give their girls dolls to play with and their boys
“action figures” and toy guns. While these gender differences in
socialization are probably smaller now than a generation ago, they
certainly continue to exist. Go into a large toy store and you will see
pink aisles of dolls and cooking sets and blue aisles of action figures,
toy guns, and related items.
Peers
Peer
influences also encourage gender socialization. As they reach school
age, children begin to play different games based on their gender (see
the “Sociology Making a Difference” box). Boys tend to play sports and
other competitive team games governed by inflexible rules and relatively
large numbers of roles, while girls tend to play smaller, cooperative
games such as hopscotch and jumping rope with fewer and more flexible
rules. Although girls are much more involved in sports now than a
generation ago, these gender differences in their play as youngsters
persist and continue to reinforce gender roles. For example, they
encourage competitiveness in boys and cooperation and trust among girls.
Boys who are not competitive risk being called “sissy” or other words
by their peers. The patterns we see in adult males and females thus have
their roots in their play as young children (King, Miles, & Kniska,
1991).
Sociology Making a Difference
Gender Differences in Children’s Play and Games
In
considering the debate, discussed in the text, between biology and
sociology over the origins of gender roles, some widely cited studies by
sociologists over gender differences in children’s play and games
provide important evidence for the importance of socialization.
Janet Lever (1978)
studied fifth-grade children in three different communities in
Connecticut. She watched them play and otherwise interact in school and
also had the children keep diaries of their play and games outside
school. One of her central aims was to determine how complex the two
sexes’ play and games were in terms of such factors as number of rules,
specialization of roles, and size of the group playing. In all of these
respects, Lever found that boys’ play and games were typically more
complex than girls’ play and games. She attributed these differences to
socialization by parents, teachers, and other adults and argued that the
complexity of boys’ play and games helped them to be better able than
girls to learn important social skills such as dealing with rules and
coordinating actions to achieve goals.
Meanwhile, Barrie Thorne (1993)
spent many months in two different working-class communities in
California and Michigan observing fourth and fifth graders sit in class
and lunchrooms and play on the school playgrounds. Most children were
white, but several were African American or Latino. As you might expect,
the girls and boys she observed usually played separately from each
other, and the one-sex groups in which they played were very important
for the development of their gender identity, with boys tending to play
team sports and other competitive games and girls tending to play
cooperative games such as jump rope. These differences led Thorne to
conclude that gender-role socialization stems not only from practices by
adults but also from the children’s own activities without adult
involvement. When boys and girls did interact, it was often “girls
against the boys” or vice versa in classroom spelling contests and in
games such as tag. Thorne concluded that these “us against them”
contests helped the children learn that boys and girls are two different
and antagonistic sexes and that gender itself is antagonistic, even if
there were also moments when both sexes interacted on the playground in
more relaxed, noncompetitive situations. Boys also tended to disrupt
girls’ games more than the reverse and in this manner both exerted and
learned dominance over females. In all of these ways, children were not
just the passive recipients of gender-role socialization from adults
(their teachers), but they also played an active role in ensuring that
such socialization occurred.
The
studies by Lever and Thorne were among the first to emphasize the
importance of children’s play and peer relationships for gender
socialization. They also called attention to the importance of the
traits and values learned through such socialization for outcomes later
in life. The rise in team sports opportunities for girls in the years
since Lever and Thorne did their research is a welcome development that
addresses the concerns expressed in their studies, but young children
continue to play in the ways that Lever and Thorne found. To the extent
children’s play has the consequences just listed, and to the extent
these consequences impede full gender inequality, these sociological
studies suggest the need for teachers, parents, and other adults to help
organize children’s play that is more egalitarian along the lines
discussed by Lever, Thorne, and other scholars. In this way, their
sociological work has helped to make a difference and promises to
continue to do so.
Schools
School is yet another agent of gender socialization (Klein, 2007).
First of all, school playgrounds provide a location for the
gender-linked play activities just described to occur. Second, and
perhaps more important, teachers at all levels treat their female and
male students differently in subtle ways of which they are probably not
aware. They tend to call on boys more often to answer questions in class
and to praise them more when they give the right answer. They also give
boys more feedback about their assignments and other school work
(Sadker & Sadker, 1994).
At all grade levels, many textbooks and other books still portray
people in gender-stereotyped ways. It is true that the newer books do
less of this than older ones, but the newer books still contain some
stereotypes, and the older books are still used in many schools,
especially those that cannot afford to buy newer volumes.
Mass Media
Gender socialization also occurs through the mass media (Dow & Wood, 2006).
On children’s television shows, the major characters are male. On
Nickelodeon, for example, the very popular SpongeBob SquarePants is a
male, as are his pet snail, Gary; his best friend, Patrick Star; their
neighbor, Squidward Tentacles; and SpongeBob’s employer, Eugene Crabs.
Of the major characters in Bikini Bottom, only Sandy Cheeks is a female.
For all its virtues, Sesame Street features
Bert, Ernie, Cookie Monster, and other male characters. Most of the
Muppets are males, and the main female character, Miss Piggy, depicted
as vain and jealous, is hardly an admirable female role model. As for
adults’ prime-time television, more men than women continue to fill more
major roles in weekly shows, despite notable women’s roles in shows
such as The Good Wife and Grey’s Anatomy.
Women are also often portrayed as unintelligent or frivolous
individuals who are there more for their looks than for anything else.
Television commercials reinforce this image (Yoder, Christopher, &
Holmes, 2008).
Cosmetics ads abound, suggesting not only that a major task for women
is to look good but also that their sense of self-worth stems from
looking good. Other commercials show women becoming ecstatic over
achieving a clean floor or sparkling laundry. Judging from the world of
television commercials, then, women’s chief goals in life are to look
good and to have a clean house. At the same time, men’s chief goals,
judging from many commercials, are to drink beer and drive cars.
Women’s and men’s magazines reinforce these gender images (Milillo, 2008).
Most of the magazines intended for teenaged girls and adult women are
filled with pictures of thin, beautiful models, advice on dieting,
cosmetics ads, and articles on how to win and please your man.
Conversely, the magazines intended for teenaged boys and men are filled
with ads and articles on cars and sports, advice on how to succeed in
careers and other endeavors, and pictures of thin, beautiful (and
sometimes nude) women. These magazine images again suggest that women’s
chief goals are to look good and to please men and that men’s chief
goals are to succeed, win over women, and live life in the fast lane.
Religion
Another
agent of socialization, religion, also contributes to traditional
gender stereotypes. Many traditional interpretations of the Bible yield
the message that women are subservient to men (Tanenbaum, 2009).
This message begins in Genesis, where the first human is Adam, and Eve
was made from one of his ribs. The major figures in the rest of the
Bible are men, and women are for the most part depicted as wives,
mothers, temptresses, and prostitutes; they are praised for their roles
as wives and mothers and condemned for their other roles. More
generally, women are constantly depicted as the property of men. The Ten
Commandments includes a neighbor’s wife with his house, ox, and other
objects as things not to be coveted (Exodus 20:17), and many biblical
passages say explicitly that women belong to men, such as this one from
the New Testament:
Wives
be subject to your husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the
head of the wife as Christ is the head of the Church. As the Church is
subject to Christ, so let wives also be subject in everything to their
husbands. (Ephesians 5:22–24)
Several
passages in the Old Testament justify the rape and murder of women and
girls. The Koran, the sacred book of Islam, also contains passages
asserting the subordinate role of women (Mayer, 2009).
This
discussion suggests that religious people should believe in traditional
gender views more than less religious people, and research confirms
this relationship (Morgan, 1988). To illustrate this, shows the relationship in the General Social Survey between frequency of prayer and the view (seen first in )
that “it is much better for everyone involved if the man is the
achiever outside the home and the woman takes care of the home and
family.” People who pray more often are more likely to accept this
traditional view of gender roles.
A Final Word on the Sources of Gender
Scholars
in many fields continue to debate the relative importance of biology
and of culture and socialization for how we behave and think as girls
and boys and as women and men. The biological differences between
females and males lead many scholars and no doubt much of the public to
assume that masculinity and femininity are to a large degree
biologically determined or at least influenced. In contrast,
anthropologists, sociologists, and other social scientists tend to view
gender as a social construction. Even if biology does matter for gender,
they say, the significance of culture and socialization should not be
underestimated. To the extent that gender is indeed shaped by society
and culture, it is possible to change gender and to help bring about a
society where both men and women have more opportunity to achieve their
full potential.
Key Takeaways
- Sex is a biological concept, while gender is a social concept and
refers to the social and cultural differences a society assigns to
people based on their sex.
- Several biological explanations for gender roles
exist, but sociologists think culture and socialization are more
important sources of gender roles than biology.
- Families, schools, peers, the mass media, and
religion are agents of socialization for the development of gender
identity and gender roles.
For Your Review
- Write a short essay about one or two events you recall from your
childhood that reflected or reinforced your gender socialization.
- Do you think gender roles are due more to biology or to culture and socialization? Explain your answer.